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  • Tale of the twice lost phone . .

    Day 7 with a lost or stolen phone. The nightmare continues . . . . .

    As posted in my very first official blog post I lost my cell phone last Wednesday afternoon in Sandwich MA. It was last used taking a photo of my laptop screen of camping reservation. After that I thought I packed up my stuff into bags on my bike and pedaled off into the evening. Somewhere between Sandwich Public Library, River Street and Tupper Road and halfway to Sagamore bridge on the CC Canal I noticed I did not have my phone. Searched my gear. Drove the route I took multiple times. Stopped to ask strangers and property owners as well as many businesses. No luck. No phone. No signs of it being driven over or smashed.

    The police were notified and as of yet, no luck with them although some interesting information has come to my attention concerning a second persons phone turning up missing at the same campground. Not running with that yet until I get some definitive proof that my phone may have been stolen and being used.

    This all leads me to this statement. Anyone trying to reach me via my Mint Mobile phone I do not have my phone in my possession or access to messages, Working on getting a GO Phone up and running today that I purchased yesterday and paid for the activation but as of yet it has not “activated” to use the phone or data. Very displeased about that and hopefully I will not have to get on a phone and straighten this out because I am ripping mad.

    Our thoughts and emotions are very powerful in how they effect everything within us and around us. Keeping on top of them is a battle and key to stretches of victory over the darkness of depression and good mental health. It is so easy to allow things to snowball within us to the point where we neglect self care and begin not to eat properly and also not sleep and rest as needed. And this is just the start of the effects to watch for as they can progress to more and more detrimental health issues. All feeding us into a downward spiral unless we or someone else catches it and intervenes.

    Things could push things to be my “normal” Rick self and go off on a disaster mode of everything I try is met with difficulty and multiple hurdles to gain traction let alone victory and complete something. Giving up is not the solution. Nor is giving in. The very fact that I am typing this out to explain where I am at is a plus. I have endeavored on my biggest quests and goals ever in my life. Real goals. Goals of a relocation and new beginning, Goals of restarting my Business. Goals of starting a personal blog. Goals of bringing mental health awareness to the masses and bike pack across USA in 2026 for Mental Health Awareness & beat back the darkness so many battle. In silence and seeming abandonment.

    We are never in it alone as we so often think. We tend to block so many people in our situations that we forget and the stinking thinking takes over. Many people care. Our problems often lie into how we became wired to think the way we think and react the way we react and to correct the things we are able to correct and to deal with the rest in positive and constructive ways.

    Is it easy. No. Not at all. I quit 100 times a day. But if on the 101st I do not quit then there is one victory. If you do 100 things in a day and screw 99 of them up but you did that 1 thing perfectly and all worked to benefit then STAND ON THAT ONE THING! Tomorrow is another day. Strive for it. Never give up as easy as it often is. Get back up. Dig in. Wipe the dust off and take the next positive step,

    You can do it. I know you can. I have been doing it for 56 years. Perseverance still works.

    Persevere. Run the race to be in it not just to try and win it. Any finish is a finish. Champions do not quit. The grit and determination is what drives them not the prizes.

    Peace to all. May God bless you and you find peace within yourself so that you may experience tranquility in midst of chaos.

    Until next time, Keep on Keeping on!

  • Not the start I had planned . . . . .

    Not the start I had planned . . . . .

    Sandwich Public Library

    Here I sit at the Sandwich Public Library typing out a revised first blog. Funny how things seem to work out . . . . not as planned.

    I will start by adding that Cape Cod has some of the nicest Public Libraries I have ever visited. Bar none. All have the hometown appeal that each one holds in history as well as knowledgeable staff and up to date resources available. As with all things on Cape Cod check the hours of each location because summer hours change and each has much to offer. Libraries are the second greatest place on earth next to a God Fearing Jesus Loving Church fellowship.

    On to the first blog albeit the second that has been bumped up, You see, this whole endeavor has been planned to some extent but the staging and sequence of all has been messed up. Currently, I am semi homeless and looking for a place to lay my head on Cape Cod and start my business up in a new state with new goals.

    Up until Wednesday evening things were going as good as expected. Then. After working at the Sandwich Library on many computer related items as well as multiple webpages and sites . . . . . I lost my cell phone. The lifeline that they have become in our lives is immense. Have not been able to check most emails, text messages, bank info etc etc etc.

    NOT LETTING IT TAKE ME OVER AND GET ME DOWN. Have had enough. Have stressed yes, rode over 80 miles in 36 hours Wed Eve and yesterday, All great miles, beautiful weather and cicada filled hazards. God is in this. All of it. He may not have lost my phone but he is in the mix of living each minute of each day.

    So much of my life has been thrown away. Some by choice. Some by accident. Some by just happenstance. In all of it. God is STILL on The Throne. All the wasted wallowing and worry gained nothing. As most anyone who battles depression or mental health wellness knows, honestly, we can be our worst enemies.

    Stinking thinking. Bad thoughts. What could happens . . . . . ALL A WASTE OF TIME AND SANITY to no good effect on anyone, Us, those around us and those whom we love.

    Its not easy. At all. I know it. But fight for it. Strive for it. Do something different. If you end up at the same crossroads time and time again change the formula. Break the patterns. Break the habits. Try new things. Refuse toxic relationships. Ask for help. Accept the help.

    Keep on keeping on. Fall down, Get Back Up!

    Peace out from Beautiful Cape Cod! May God bless you and yours this day. And if you found a Samsung phone with a gray case between Sandwich Public Library, River St, Tupper Rd and Canal to Sagamore Bridge please turn it in to the Library or Park Service at the Cape Cod Canal. You could also drop me an email at bigcheese@direct-alternatives.com.